Protects shared room history from absent knocking member

[matrixbot]

This issue has been migrated from #14067.

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Fix matrix-org/synapse#13968

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[MadLittleMods]

Closing this placeholder which is actually a PR on the other repo. It should be re-opened on the this repo if we still want to merge.